I am REALLY TIRED of this fucking fallacy that you cannot be a strong dedicated feminist AND a submissive at the same time THEY ARE NOT MUTUALLY EXCLUSIVE KIDS the whole point of feminism is equality for people to CHOOSE what they want to do/be in life and submissives are CHOOSING to submit to someone that is the DEFINITION OF FEMINISM. I am not any less of a feminist because I submit to Adam and have rules and punishments and etc etc and if you think that I am then I do not want to be friends with you I am not even joking.

isolateandsaveyou:

Last night, I was feeling bad (allergies were kicking my ass) and Ulfric was super tired due to a lack of sleep Tuesday night. So we both sort of apologized to each other for not being in the mood, agreed that we’d have sex today, then went to bed and cuddled up and fell asleep.

Ulfric got home from work today and the roomie had to go do paperwork at her new job, so He settled on the couch next to me (unusual, as He would much rather be in His recliner) and we sat and chatted about His day for a bit, and about mine, and cuddled a little. I noticed His mustache was getting a bit long and told Him to come to the bathroom with me so I could trim it up for Him. When I stood up, my shirt had ridden up on my waist, and apparently my g-string was hanging out of my pants. He grabbed the back of my pants, I thought to help Him up, but I realized He was kneeling behind me on the floor. I started giggling and saying “What is this? What are you doing?” as He reached around me and started to unbuckled my belt and undo my jeans and pull them down. As He pulled them off of my hips, He said “What is THIS?!” referencing my panties. I hadn’t worn this pair in a while—I’m talking 6 months or more—and I think we both forgot how fabulous they look on me. He spun me around and grabbed me around the waist and put me on the floor on my back, pulling off my pants the rest of the way. He admired the view for about 15 seconds, then my underwear joined my pants, discarded on His chair, and He shoved my legs in the air and ate my pussy until I was shaking and screaming. 

After a few minutes of that, He sat up and gave me a few moments to recover, both of us saying “how you doin” to each other. When I asked Him, He showed me that He was rock hard and I said “Well, we need to do something with that!” So up we got and went back to the bedroom. I laid on the bed while He turned the fan on in the room, then He crawled between my legs and shoved Himself inside of me, causing me to cum immediately. He fucked me completely senseless for quite a while—my throat is actually hurting from all the screaming I was doing—changing the position up a bit from time to time. My legs over His shoulders, one leg hooked over His arm and one around His waist, holding my thighs open and fucking me hard and fast. He’s amazing in bed, have I mentioned that? Eventually, He grabbed me around the waist and laid down, putting me on top of Him. I happily started to ride Him, with Him grabbing my hips to pull me down harder onto Him and guide me a bit. He was so hard and had already made me cum so much that I could feel a super heavy orgasm coming at me very very quickly. I think He could tell and He was close too, I could hear it in His moans. I started saying “cum with me” and we both came at the same time, and I think I triggered a second orgasm for Him immediately after the first. 

Afternoon delight, indeed. :D

Just a bit of what is posted on our D/s blog. You should probably go follow it for pictures and stuff. :3

lipfuck:

so would you kindly reblog this if you’re sub or dom, a kitten or master, a princess or a sir :) how many of you are out there? 

I’m a masochistic sub!

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nudityandnerdery:

Being a Dom isn’t the same thing as being a control freak who hates the idea of your partner making decisions without your input.

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nedarkenstone:

areluctantintimation:

That kiss… Possessive and amazing!

You’re kidding me.

Look at his hands, he’s not possessive so much as controlling. 

NO NO NO NO NO! This is NOT attractive, it’s DEMEANING and CONTROLLING and ffs THIS SHIT IS WHY RAPE CULTURE STILL FUCKING EXISTS. DOES SHE LOOK HAPPY DO YOU? LOOK AT THOSE FUCKING HANDS!!!! *flips a table*

Maybe due to my relationship, I’m viewing this in a different light. To me, it’s Dominant/submissive interaction. Adam kisses me like this a good bit, and I just melt. So I guess it’s all about how you view it, considering there’s no context with it. /shrug.

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You Scored as Masochist

Masochist——-93%

Exhibitionist/Voyeur——-86%

Submissive——-82%

Experimental——-79%

Bondage——-68%

Degradation——-64%

Sadist——-57%

Switch——-43%

Dominant——-11%

Vanilla——-7%

http://quizfarm.com/quizzes/Sex/poeticthinker/do-you-have-an-inclination-for-bdsm/index.php

There’s the link.

onlinepolice:

roobicon:

onlinepolice:

why would you want to be in one of those weird “master/pet” relationships

i dare you to fucking try and hit me and i’ll rip your danglers off and parade them round town

D/s relationships aren’t about hitting each other. They’re just…

Uh, OP, thanks for calling my relationship “weird” just because you’re a close-minded ass with no concept of anything other than what YOU like. Bravo, really, good job.

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elysethekraken:

No, stop, seriously, no, stop stop stop.

That series is not a good model for a healthy, consensual, supportive BDSM/impact play relationship.

That series disregards the feelings of Ana. That series disregards safe words. It is a very problematic series and not one to…

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scarletrosefox:

submissivefeminist:

Yeah, fuck that.

As much as I personally hate using a safe word I find it absolutely necessary for any scene, no matter who with or what is being done. It is my strong belief that true BDSM practice requires some safety signal in case of emergency. Without that, the very basis of the relationship dynamic is rendered useless. I do not condone BDSM-play without a safe word, as this is potentially dangerous to both partners. Safety and communication are absolute concrete foundations to BDSM.

Co-signed.

Seriously. Even if I don’t use it, knowing that its there in case something happens and that I KNOW that I can use it. That is what matters to me. Things happen, scenes don’t always go right. Sometimes it just has to be used because your hurt or something doesn’t feel right mentally. And that’s okay. 

That and I find not having the ability to use it, takes away from things being consensual.

Basically, this. I know that some couples GENUINELY have no safe word. They feel it unnecessary or just don’t want one or they’re no limit slaves, what have you. Kaya, at www.underhishand.com, is one such person. She has no safe word with her Master. And that’s great for them because they make it work. But if you have a safe word, and you do not feel comfortable doing BDSM play without a safe word, then it is a red goddamn flag for someone to say that you are not allowed to use your safe word. No one takes my safe word from me. My Ulfric respects the fact that I have one; actually damn near demanded that we have one. BDSM is about safe, sane, and consensual. See that last word? Consensual. If the S-type (sub, slave, masochist, whatever) has a safe word in place already, and the D-type (Dominant, Master, Owner, etc.) arbitrarily removes it without the consent of the s-type, then any play that happens after that point is NOT CONSENSUAL and therefore NOT OK.

Basically: If there’s a safe word, it has to be agreed upon by both fucking parties to remove it and do BDSM play without it. The D-type doesn’t just get to say LOL WELL I KNOW YOU HAVE A SAFE WORD, BUT TONIGHT, NO YOU DON’T. If they do that, then they are an abuser, not a Master.

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